Hey AG,
I still havent gotten to the core issue with this. I am going to call VMware support and open up the case.
the bummer now is that everything just stopped. No more disconnects since teh night i wrote about about this.
I have bunch of screen shots and i can see on the switches that when this was happening the phisical interfaces did not go down.
the STP topology did not change, no events were recorded by the switch itself.
Starting to feel like i ran into a wall and now just going to have to depend on VMware support.
I will keep you posted as to what i found.
thanks.
SL